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Gosh! It seems like the minute the umbilical cord is cut off to welcome the new-born into the world, she already knows she wants Naomi's lips and Cheek bones and Pam's rack and maybe Halle's ‘behind' for the more ambitious ones!
So somehow they get into the world with their mind made up and in a matter of about 18 years, they call Dr 90210 to help them fulfill their lifetime goals.....if you know what I mean!
Why are you so upset at your chicken legs? Or that hair is not growing as fast as you think it should grow even after all the investment in your ‘doo-grow' hair products?
I mean, the amount of horse hair available today globally is insane. In fact, based on statistics, the hair extension business is booming! Profit margins are skyrocketing by 100%. Moreover, with more people falling for hair fashion and genuine falling of hair becoming a common problem, there's reason to be hopeful both as the business as well as the consumer.
So yesterday, I went out for lunch with an old friend and all I had throughout lunch was,
"I can't' believe my ‘a**' has grown this big. "
"I used to be nice and petit!"
And oh my, how I wanted to just scream if I had this one more time. If your behind has grown big, it is okay. Please! Ladies! It is yours! So why are you so surprised about the way it looks? Why are we acting like someone came in and attacked us overnight and then gave us new body parts, when in real sense it is normal to change? Trust me on this one; if you are looking like you used to when you were 13 years of age, and now you are 40 and still looking 13, then we need to call Dr Phil coz that is a problem.
Each and everyone I know is beautiful, whole and complete lacking nothing, so I really have a hard time understanding the problem here.
I see people who have idolized a certain body shape, size and features and suddenly, it becomes the trend that they must have no matter what it takes, hence the ‘crack heads,' bulimics, anorexics and surgery.
Yes Dr 90210 can answer any of your plastic surgery questions and hook you up, but how much hook up can you really get from that surgery? Does it solve all your problems when you walk in with a brand new pair of 'goodies'?
When all that is done, do you feel like the void in you has been filled?
After boob job, rhinoplasty, the correct name for a nose job, cheek bone, lip job, skin lightening ......I wonder what people like Lil' Kim will be having next, or what she will be looking like 10 years from now. I doubt 10 years younger; more like 10 years older?
If your boobs are too small, they say, "Get a boob job!"
If they are too big, they say, "Get a reduction....no good for your back!"
When your ‘African heritage' is small, they say "get padded underwear"
When your ‘African Heritage is big, they say "Damn!" (More like what to do with that?)
Not all of you will be able to afford plastic surgery so please get a grip of yourselves and deal with what's yours.
1. Identify what is yours and be grateful!
2. Claim it!
3. Nurture it!
4. Celebrate it!
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, it's just that we get caught up even when we say we won't hate ourselves for what we aren't. 
